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#MaybeHeDoesntHitYou #MaybeHeDoesntDeserveYou

A powerful campaign has been around for awhile #maybehedoesnthityou.  Women are tweeting how their intimate partner emotionally abuses them and it is making more aware of the dangers behind emotional abuse.  I think it extends far past just men and can … Continue reading

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Today

Today I don’t know what tomorrow brings, for the future is unforseen. Today I am reminded how far I have come. Today my struggles seem surreal compared to the world struggles lately. Today the guilt set in once again as … Continue reading

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Let it go….

These are the words I long for, but I dread to hear.  I can’t tell you how many times I have heard this.  Can’t she just let it go? Today a song struck an inner chord in me and I … Continue reading

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The after effects

So many people talk about PTSD, but they really “talk” about the subject.  I will never forget being out with a group of people and an individual that I met once before asked me ” So you over your PTSD … Continue reading

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There is no comparison

I know PTSD is often misunderstood and compared.  I am not sure which one is worse.  That we are compared about a horrible disease or misunderstood.  A few days ago I was talking to another individual who has PTSD and … Continue reading

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Is this really happening?

It’s been over 3 years since my separation and tumultuous divorce.  I have forced myself to date because I knew if I didn’t then I might never date again.  My best friends pushed me, my psychologist and yes even my family. … Continue reading

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It all clicked

I can definitely say I was in denial for over a year and never understood how a person could do this to their own child or soon to be ex-wife.  It took me 7 months to get child support. This … Continue reading

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