Category Archives: court reform

Divorce and Narcissism: Is it a poison for our children?

I often help people through a divorce and they are mostly women, but the one thing that always sticks in my mind is high conflict divorces and narcissism.  Being a survivor myself and 5 years into his battle, I often … Continue reading

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Dumbfounded

Words cannot express how I am feeling. An elementary school child has told you that she was hurt by her father The bruises on her eyes and arms and her words mean nothing to you When is enough, enough? My … Continue reading

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A Broken System

Two years ago my world was falling apart, my ex-husband was saying I was abusive to our Landry.  I was the sole caregiver for Landry through every medical intervention that the medical professionals wanted for Landry and every medical decision.  … Continue reading

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PTSD is Real

My heart is breaking I see you disassociating I see the fear in your eyes The sea is not calm and your heart is broken You hear noises, but they remind you of the past and not the present You … Continue reading

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Parental Alienation Syndrome or DV by Proxy?

Through my journey with Landry I have had learned several things I never intended to know about mainly: PTSD, parental alienation, domestic violence by proxy and Cluster B personality disorders and a horrible court system.  We have navigated these uncertain … Continue reading

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Breaking the Silence- The Final Act

So this will be my last piece on my former physical and sexual domestic violence.  I am still entrenched in trauma as we share Landry together and their have been multiple emotional, verbal and psychological traumas and domestic disturbances.  He … Continue reading

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Breaking the Silence- Act II

This piece is a continuation of the Breaking the Silence Blogs. He left from college and I began to see a different person.  He got on medicines for depression and I thought he was changing.  It was hard being apart, … Continue reading

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